A good profile is not about impressing someone. Over the years, I have seen many profiles that unintentionally push Japanese women away, even when the man behind the profile is kind, genuine, and sincere. A good profile is not about impressing someone.It is about helping the other person imagine sharing life with you. Here, we’ll …
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Proof that love blossoms at any age As the year 2025 draws to a close, I find myself reflecting on the many beautiful stories that unfolded at OZMATCH over the past twelve months. Among them were several touching proposal reports—some so sweet that they made me smile instantly. And what I love most is this: …
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Discovering the Heart of Japanese Women Through Sound I went to a hotel near the Toya-Lake (洞爺湖) in Hokkaido with my husband. There is a cafe and a nice library there. I found a very interesting book there, 名前のない言葉辞典, means ’Dictionary of Nameless Words’. It is about Onomatopoeia. Have you ever wondered how Japanese women …
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What you need to know if you want to date Japanese women. Male members of OZMATCH ask me questions when they start dating Japanese women. “How often should I send messages her?” I’m honestly not sure when/if I should text her.I don’t want to text too much, but it I don’t text then she may …
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Is being Old School ashamed? As a matchmaker for an international matchmaking agency that introduces single men who want to meet Japanese women to single Japanese women, I have to speak to men in English on a daily basis. When I talk to them, I learn some English that I didn’t learn at school. One …
Do Japanese women really want ordinary lives? As an international marriage adviser, I consult single Japanese women and single Australian men every day. They are all single people looking for a partner seriously. Today I consulted with one of our Japanese female clients. When I met her at the very beginning of her membership of …
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Differences between Japanese and Western Valentine’s Day In the West, Valentine’s Day is well established as an opportunity to confess love to that one special person in your life and shower them with affection, which usually means showering them with gifts or planning to take them on the perfect date. It is usually the man …
Japanese Women use multiple dating services to find their future partner Dating apps are becoming the mainstream way to find a girlfriend/boyfriend or partner. But in Japan, it appears that the mainstream is to use dating apps as well as the services of marriage agencies or introduction agencies. There are approximately 4,000 marriage agencies in …
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There’s no time like Christmas to feel alone In the West, Christmas would be a time to spend with family like the Japanese new year. But in Japan, Christmas is a time for couples. So I hated Christmas when I was in Japan and I hated Christmas for decades because I was single for a …
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Isn’t it hard to get to know someone just online? This is probably the main reason why OZMATCH male members feel uneasy about meeting Japanese female members. For those who have used online dating platforms, they may have already made some mistakes or had bitter experiences with online dating, and they may not be comfortable …
How does a long-distance relationship with a Japanese woman work? Read More »
