On New Year’s eve in 2021, I got a picture from one of our executive Australian male members. There was no message with it. But I knew what it meant and why he sent it to me.
It was a photo of a Japanese woman’s hand with her engagement ring.
He did it…. and I cried.
Are there any Australian men who want to meet Japanese women??
I am a Japanese matchmaker and running an international matchmaking agency in Australia to support Australian single men and Japanese single women.
When I started OzMatch, an Australian and Japanese matchmaking agency, I didn’t have any Australian male members. Zero. None. Nil. 無(mu) …
We got about ten Japanese female executive members in the first month, but there were no Australian male members, even though they could become a free basic member for free.
It showed that OzMatch wasn’t known by any Australian men at all. So sad.
Three months later, a young Australian man contacted us and said he wanted to be an executive male member. Our first male member!! Then nothing happened for the next 8 months.
Australian men are sceptical about Matchmaking Agencies
I would like to introduce one of our successful couples, Tim and Aya’s testimonial. They completed their journey with OzMatch in November 2021. A lovely couple.
In their testimonial, Tim describes his first impression of OzMatch. The below is only a part of their testimonial.
“When I first found OzMatch I was a bit skeptical if it was legitimate or not with all the stories that you hear of people getting scammed on the internet.
I had a read through the website & decided to join as a basic member then had an online consultation with Misao, the CEO.
During our chat Misao explained how OzMatch works & having actually seen who I was speaking to and not sending emails to someone who could have been anybody I felt more at ease.
I joined an OzMatch online speed dating event not sure what to expect. I still hadn’t had to pay anything so I thought I would give it a go.”
It helped me to understand how Australian men saw OzMatch and are uncomfortable with contacting us. So it took 8 months to get a second Australian male member for us.
Who was the brave man?
That is who I am going to talk about today. Let’s say he is Cris.
He is an IT guy who loves games and Japanese anime
Since I started an international matchmaking agency, I have met many men who love games and Japanese anime/mangas. Cris was one of them.
I don’t play computer games and to be honest I was prejudiced against people playing games.
But what I have found is that people who love games and Japanese anime or manga are very good people. They are shy at the beginning but once we know each other they are very friendly and very gentle.
Cris was shy and a bit grumpy at the beginning but once we knew each other we could talk for one hour easily. He was quite funny.
I thought he would find his best match at OzMatch in one year but his first year with us didn’t go well. He was tired and said he wanted to take a break for a while. I understood and respected his decision.
There is a right time to meet a Japanese woman
Then three to four months later, Cris contacted us and asked if there were any Japanese ladies who could match him. I said “Maybe”.
There was a new Japanese executive female member who had lived in Australia more than 8 years but hadn’t met a special person yet.
I introduced both of them and they decided to meet in person. We call it an OMIAI, a first date.
Before the OMIAI, she asked me what kind of conversation she should have. She was shy too. I was a bit worried about what kind of first date they would have as they are both shy. But the first date, OMIAI, went well and they started conversations regularly.
I often wonder how our couple met. I mean how they knew their future partner was in OzMatch. They came to OzMatch at the right time and met the right person.
Don’t give up to find your best match so soon
It took 2 years and 2 months for Cris to find someone whom he would like to make a commitment to at OzMatch.
You may think that taking two years to find a partner is too long.
One of our new executive Australian male members recently told us that he was disappointed that he hadn’t found a partner after 6 weeks on OzMatch.
He met a very nice Japanese female member at OzMatch and they went very well. But he decided to end the relationship after two weeks because she couldn’t come to meet him at Christmas time from Japan.
For some people, two weeks seems to be the limit of patience to finding the right person. And I understand it.
Before joining OzMatch, they spent many years trying to find a partner and were exhausted of disappointment. So two weeks could be enough to be patient for them.
Cris was the same. But he didn’t give up.
He is an IT guy who loves games and Japanese anime. He is shy and has been single for a long time. He wanted to meet a Japanese woman who understood him and wanted to be with him.
He found her and they got engaged on New Year’s eve in 2021.
Congratulations !
Japanese Matchmaking
OZMATCH, a licensed matchmaking agency based in QLD Australia, are supporting Japanese single women and Australian single men who are looking for love and a long-term relationship seriously.
If you want to search your ideal Japanese partner, register with OZMATCH as a Basic Member. It’s a FREE membership and you can view the bios of our Japanese female members.
If you would like to know more about “How to meet Japanese woman” and our services, please register for a 30 minutes FREE consultation.
Misao McBride, the CEO of OZMATCH will answer any questions that you would like to know.
