What if your wife is a Japanese beauty contest winner ?
Do you think she is beautiful?
Her name is Hiromi. She is Japanese. She is 58 years old and she is a winner of a beauty contest in Japan.
Several months ago, I introduced her through the Ozmatch newsletter to all Ozmatch male members and individual emails to some male members in their 50s and 60s.
I asked them “Does anyone want to meet her?” No one replied to us.
Was it because it was too good to be true? Was it because she was not in Australia?
It may be too rude to say this but how many Australian women in their 50s can stay young and beautiful like her.
A game changer for Garry and Hiromi
She is not only a beautiful looking Japanese woman, but beautiful inside too. That is why I highly recommend her to Australian male members and suggested to them that they take a chance.
No one took a chance.
Because no one took a chance, I couldn’t introduce any Australian men to her for three months after she upgraded her membership. I felt so sorry for her and suggested that she should join our Online Speed Dating Event to show who she was.
At the same time, there was an Australian new free basic male member who was introduced to Ozmatch by his friend. His name is Garry. Garry was 58 years old, being single for many years.
Was he not attractive? No, he is attractive but he hasn’t had a chance to meet someone wonderful.
He didn’t know much about Ozmatch. He registered with Ozmatch out of curiosity. That’s all.
I soon sent an email to Garry to join our online speed dating event because one Australian male attendee cancelled and I had to find replacement in a hurry. It was only three days before the event.
He said “OK”.
Who would have thought this became a game changer for them both.
The worst dating event experience ever for a Japanese woman
On the day of the online speed dating event, Hiromi was very nervous and she kept thinking about how she could run away. She created so many excuses not to join the event in her mind.
Tick tock tick tock.
The time had come and she had to click the link to join our event. Poor Hiromi.
On that evening, her internet reception was very bad and she could hardly talk to any men even though she was given a total of 50 minutes to talk to all of the men (5 minutes each).
She mustered up the courage to join in, but she couldn’t leave a good impression with the male attendees due to her poor internet connection. Poor Hiromi.
How a one minutes self introduction video changed two people’s lives
After the event, Hiromi asked me if it was ok to send a thankyou video to someone.
I said “Of course”. No one had made a self introduction video at that time at Ozmatch. So I had no idea what she could create but I liked her idea.
She made a self introduction one minutes video the next day. It looked wonderful and I sent it to one of the event attendees, Garry.
This is Garry’s first reply:
Hi Misao
Thank you so much for the video from Francesca ( Francesca was Hiromi’s profile name). I enjoyed it very much and I’m thrilled that she took the time to send me a video considering the internet issues she had.
Please tell her I’m interested in meeting her. I expect to join Ozmatch in about a month if she can wait that long. Thanks for your thoughtful email.
Cheers Garry
Then within one hour, Garry sent me the second email:
Hi Misao, I have changed my mind. I’ll join up this weekend as I want to meet her. Cheers Garry
Ozmatch organised their first date, OMIAI, on October 24th in 2020. Since then the two of them, though physically separated, their feelings are firmly attached to each other.
Garry looked back that time and said to me about Hiromi’s self introduction video:
“I can tell that Hiromi rehearsed over and over again. She put lots of effort into it to introduce herself to me and I was so impressed with that. I thought I had to join Ozmatch straight away. And since then I have been very happy.”
Garry also said he feels like he hit the jackpot! I agree.
The secret to a successful long-distance relationship
Make a routine with your Japanese girlfriend
I have been asked so many times “ How does it work if two people can’t meet? “ That was my question too till our first successful couple was born.
Most of our exclusive couples are in a long distance relationship and they haven’t met in a real file yet. But every couple has built a lovely trustworthy relationship.
You may say that’s not possible and I thought so too. But it is possible. Because our couples have proved it.
I would like to share how Garry and Hiromi have built a strong bond in a short time over a long distance.
They have exchanged voice messages and photo messages every day since they met. They do video chats three times a week. They sometimes have a weekend breakfast together online.
They have set a routine.
For example, Tuesday, Friday and Sunday at 7pm are their video chat time. Because they know when is the next time, they don’t need to wonder when they will talk next time.
You might think, isn’t it a great thing?
Yes, it is.
I have been looking after many couples and one of the common stresses for new couples is ‘uncertainty’.
Everything is new to them and they constantly wonder, “Will he/she call me again? and when will it be?” “ He/She hasn’t replied to my message yet. Is he/she busy or something happened to him/her?”
But if the couple make a routine and both know which day is the video chat, what time is a good time to send a message to say good morning and good night.
It is so simple and it saves your energy from worrying or being anxious. And you can make good use of the rest of your time.
Add a small surprise to make your Japanese girlfriend happy
One evening Garry said to Hiromi, “Come on Hiromi, let’s go for a walk! ”
Hiromi didn’t know what he meant, so she said, “What? I have my slippers on. Do I have to stand up?”. They were sitting in front of their computer.
It was a walk on Google Maps. Garry took Hiromi out where she lived and started showing around her neighbors. It was fun!! His mischievousness made Hiromi swoon!
Another evening, Hiromi bought a branch of cherry blossoms and they had a cherry blossom viewing party together through the computer screen. How sweet is that!
Sometimes they talk about their childhood, sometimes they talk about their family. It has been 7 months since they met and they never stop being grateful for each other’s presence.
the Advantage of a long distance relationship
As I said, Garry and Hiromi haven’t met in real life yet. It is sad and it makes their relationship difficult sometimes. But there are some advantages as well.
They spend heaps of time getting to know each other with massive amounts of conversation.
Think about your online dating experiences in the past. How much time did you spend getting to know each other before the first date?
Was it good enough not to disappoint when she showed up? Was it good enough not to let her disappoint when you showed up?
Having a coffee with someone in 5 minutes is better than exchanging 100 messages to get to know them. I agree with it.
But it is easy to misunderstand her if you don’t know her well on the first date. It is easy to be misunderstood by her if she doesn’t know you well on the first date. And both of you might never meet again.
A long distant relationship with your Japanese girlfriend is a short time in your long life
When you go to a cafe or restaurant, you will see some couples who don’t have conversation. They are usually married couples.
Why does it happen?
It is because they didn’t have a conversation while they were dating. They didn’t do it until it became a habit while they were dating.
I can’t imagine Garry and Hiromi stopping talking. Because communication everyday is now their routine and part of their life. They will never stop communicating for the rest of their lives. Isn’t that what you want, too?
They created a picture that looked as if they were together!
And I believe that will come true in 2022.
They have already chosen a specific day for their wedding, a time for the jacarandas to bloom.
A long distance relationship is not easy but it is only a short time in your long life. So be open to any opportunities and be willing to meet our ladies who live in Japan as well as those in Australia. It might be the best decision of your life.
The door is open to you. Who wants to have a relationship with a Japanese lady like Garry and Hiromi?