How Australian and Japanese couples with big age gaps work?
We are an international matchmaking agency in Australia and we organised an OMIAI ( a first date) last weekend.
A male member was an Australian in his 50s and a female member was a Japanese in her 30s. That’s about 20 years age difference.
You may think she is young but not attractive and that is why she had a first date with someone who is about 20 years older than her.
But that is NOT the case. She is one of our most beautiful female members, and very popular among our male members because of her looks. She looks like Ayumi Hamazaki ( Do you know her?)
I was almost 100% certain that the first meeting would go well but I was a bit worried because of an age gap. But there was no need to worry about it. Their first meeting went very well.
After the first meeting (OMIAI), he soon sent us a message:
Hi Misao-san, We just completed our OMIAI. It was wonderful (for me). She is lovely, beautiful and a very nice person. I enjoyed chatting with her very much. I hope to see her again…
And we received a message from her too.
Dear Misao, Thank you very much for organising OMIAI today. We have just finished our first meeting. As you said, he is a very interesting, attractive and intellectual person. He told me about a lot of his life abroad and I really enjoyed it. I would like to talk to him again.
They have since entered a relationship with each other.
Why do Japanese women have relationships with men who are more than 10 years older than them?
One of the biggest matchmaking agencies in Japan conducted a survey on the age difference between partners.
And here are ten reasons for “Why do women have relationships with men who are more than 10 years older than them?”
It shows that age does not matter as long as two peoples’ personality and values match!
Health and Positive attitude are key
I don’t want to give the wrong impression that mature-aged men can easily meet younger women through OzMatch.
They can’t, but sometimes when conditions and personalities, lifestyles and interests are a match then it can work. But it is not that common.
For the couple who matched last weekend, he is healthy, doesn’t look his age, is still curious about life, has many interests, and is financially stable.
When I met him at the initial consultation, I was very impressed by his positive energy which came from his health body and healthy mind. Instantly I thought that he could match with any age and I was right.
People often say that communication is a key to successful relationships. I agree with it. And I would like to add one more thing. HEALTH.
If you are looking for a younger woman, be healthy 🙂
