A man who has an interest in Japanese culture and language
I had an email from one of our new OzMatch members. He is a young Australian man who is interested in Japanese culture and language. He said that he had first dates with a few Japanese women. And what he found or couldn’t understand through his experience with finding a Japanese girlfriend is “ Are Japanese women not interested in a man who is interested in Japanese culture and language?”
One Japanese woman didn’t want to meet him because he was interested in Japanese culture including language very much.
Do you need to learn Japanese for your future Japanese partner?
If my Australian male clients ask me “ Do I need to learn Japanese?” I wouldn’t say YES.
Learning your partner’s language is not something you are forced to do. But learning your partner’s language definitely improves your relationship.
OzMatch holds an online group meeting for Australian male members once a month and I invited one of my Japanese girlfriends, Kaori. She is an English and Japanese language teacher and in a relationship with an Australian man.
Kaori shared her experiences with us. What she said is exactly what I experienced and I believe that your future Japanese partner would have a similar experience.
Please watch this video. It will help you to understand what life is like to live in a foreign country.
One Japanese word could make a big difference
In the video, Kaori said that her partner’s “Daijobu” makes her day instantly different . Daijobu is ‘Are you OK?’ in English.
In my case, “Misao-chan” can lift my mood instantly so I asked my husband to call me Misao-chan. Whenever he calls me Misao-chan, my mood is up and I become a happy wife.
In Japan, we add “san” to the end of names. This is a polite way of saying someone’s name. If the person is a child, the “chan” is used instead of the “san”.
I’m an adult and no one calls me Misao-chan any more because it could be rude. But somehow, I like to be called Misao-chan instead of Misao-san. Maybe it is because I feel that when someone calls me Misao-chan, it brings us closer together.
In the past, one of our Australian male members called me “Misao-chan”. I was happy and gave him our online speed dating event ticket for free.
Do Japanese women like a man who is interested in Japanese culture and language?
Well, I don’t know. Japanese women fall in love because of his personality, not his Japanese skills. But if you can speak Japanese, that is a bonus for Japanese women. It also helps if you understand a little bit about Japanese culture.
Japanese Matchmaking
OZMATCH, a licensed matchmaking agency based in QLD Australia, are supporting Japanese single women and Australian single men who are looking for love and a long-term relationship seriously.
If you want to search your ideal Japanese partner, register with OZMATCH as a Basic Member. It’s a FREE membership and you can view the bios of our Japanese female members.
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Misao McBride, the CEO of OZMATCH will answer any questions that you would like to know.