What should I write in my profile to attract Japanese women?
I have been asked this same question by OzMatch male members. so I am going to tell you what our Japanese female members would like to see in your profile.
If you would like to be an OzMatch free basic member, the two things below will be enough:
- Let her imagine what her future lifestyle could be like
- Tell us what you are looking for in a relationship
If you would like to upgrade your membership to an OzMatch executive membership, try to include everything below:
- Provide security and stability
- Let her imagine what her future lifestyle could be like
- Tell us what you are looking for in a relationship
- Show your vulnerability with your personal story
- Share a little bit about your family
Talk about your weekend or your spare time
Think about why Japanese single women came to OzMatch and signed up with us, and why they want to meet Australian men. If you can understand their thinking, then you will know what to write in your profile.
I have a consultation with each female member and ask them why they want to meet Australian men. Most of them say they want to meet someone who knows how important it is for couples to communicate with each other.
And they also say that they want to spend their weekends or spare time with someone who knows how to have fun with his partner.
Communication and having fun weekends with a partner may sound easy, or natural for you. But we can’t find those types of men in Japan easily.
Since I moved to Australia, I have been learning how to be myself, communicate with my husband, and have fun with him every weekend. I wasn’t good at those things at the beginning but I am getting better.
When I show my lifestyle through my youtube channel videos and my blog, Japanese single women love to watch or read them because that is what they want in their lives.
It is very important to tell them in your profile how you spend your weekend or your spare time and how important it is for you to communicate with your partner. Because that tells her what kind of lifestyle she would or could have with you for the rest of her life.
Oh, one more thing.
Do you love computer games? That is OK but don’t write about it on your profile.
Japanese ladies come from Japan to spend and experience lovely, cosy weekends with you. They have had enough of being alone or being neglected by their partner in Japan. Your love of computer games won’t inspire her 🙂
What you are looking for in a relationship
It is very important to know what women want to hear but it is still your profile and you can say what you want.
Please tell us what you are looking for and someone will feel a connection and may respond with, “I’m here.”
If you don’t say what you want, or what you are looking for, our female members won’t know if they are it.
Provide security and stability
OzMatch is an international introduction agency for Australian men and Japanese women.
All our female members are Japanese and 60% of them are in Japan. That means your future partner might still be in Japan.
So I would like to focus on Japanese women in Japan.
They are ready to come to Australia to start a new life with you. But to do so, they have to give up their jobs, careers, families, friends, etc.
Most of them don’t have any relatives, friends, a network, a community, or job in Australia. They need to start again from zero in a new environment. They might not be able to find a job in their first year. All those things make them nervous.
Therefore they need to feel security and stability. Don’t get me wrong. They are not seeking someone to look after them. But they do need your support especially for the first year.
So If you can show how reliable and trustworthy you are, you will be a winner.
But how can you show it?
I would like to recommend that you talk about your job or business and tell them how skilful you are, how knowledgeable you are, and how passionate you are about it. Women love men who have confidence about their job.
Your job or business doesn’t need to be big. Women want to see how stable you are in your job.
If you are already retired, then tell in your profile that you are financially ok. ( only if it is true, and you don’t need to be rich to find a partner.)
Show your vulnerability with your personal story
When I was a member of RSVP which is one of the biggest dating sites in Australia, I had to read many, many, many profiles.
Most profiles looked the same to me. Because they didn’t put their own story into their profile. If there is no personal story, we forget who you are within one minute.
You don’t need to tell us big things about yourself to stand out from the crowd. One short and cute story will be enough. Then we will remember you and we will feel a connection.
Women love strong men but we love someone who shows his vulnerability too. When men show their vulnerability, women feel the honesty and humanity in you.
Those are great things to share at the start of a relationship.
Share a little bit about your family
If you are divorced and have children who stay at your home sometimes or always, tell us a little bit about your children. Because that is what Japanese women really need to know. Most of our female members have never married. It will be a challenge for them to live with someone’s children even though they don’t need to be your children’s mum.
Tell in your profile how easy it is to be with your children and how lovely they are.
Let’s improve your profile
So it’s time to rewrite what you already have and take these five tips into account. The end result will give you a much better chance of finding someone and having them respond.