Remember that Japanese women are brought up in a culture of politeness
Something that I think most male members of OZMATCH don’t know or realise is that Japanese women prepare extremely well before a first date.
Japanese women spend money and time getting ready before a first date, such as going to a hairdresser to get their hair done, going to a nail salon to get their nails done in style, going to a facial salon for a facial treatment, going clothes shopping, and so on.
Being a woman sounds quite expensive, doesn’t it? 🙂
This is especially true when it is not a light-hearted first date, but a first date to find a future partner, like OZMATCH members.
Some Japanese female members send me pictures of several outfits and ask, “Misao-san, which outfit should I wear for the first date?”
I can feel their excitement and thrill and I become excited with them too.
The same is true of OZMATCH’s irregular Online Speed Dating Events, where OZMATCH Japanese female members take as much time to attend an event as they do a first date.
Well, what about western men, by contrast?
Fortunately, OZMATH male members are polite and show up dressed in clothes that are not rude to women on a first date.
However, when it comes to our Online Events to meet Japanese women, some men show up with shabby T-shirts, stubble beards and untreated hair.
I don’t understand why some western men cut corners at these important occasions of meeting or finding their future Japanese partner?
Japanese women love western casual culture, but expect men to show up with respect if that is a first date or first meeting.
If you would like to meet a nice Japanese woman, you need to remember that Japanese women are brought up in a culture that values politeness and cleanliness.
Understanding Japanese cultures is the firs step to leave a good impression on a first date with a Japanese woman.
On a first date, talk 20% and listen 80%
One of the most common mistakes male members make on a first date is talking too much.
But when I mentioned this to my husband, he told me that it is the same for women. One of the women he had a first date with kept talking about herself, and he didn’t want to see her again.
If, on the first date, the other person talked only about themselves, you can take it as a sign that this pattern of conversation will continue in the future.
A very nice man in his 60s joined OZMATCH last month. He has a quick mind and a wealth of knowledge and experience, which makes him a very interesting conversationalist, but these men tend to make mistakes on first dates.
So, before his first date with one of our Japanese female members, we had an online consultation and told him that on the first date with a Japanese woman, he should try to do 20% talking and 80% listening.
This way, the conversation will probably be 50-50, which is just the right balance.
What I found nice about the man was that he took my advice seriously, saying that Misao is a professional when it comes to dating, even though he has a much higher status than me.
His first date was a great success. A Japanese woman who had a first date with him said, “He is a very nice man who listens to me very carefully. I would love to talk to him again.” She reported that to us.
Women are attracted to men who listen to them, rather than being told how successful they are.
Being less talkative is the next step to leave a good impression on a first date with a Japanese woman.
Talking about childhood on a first date can bring you two closer together
What’s a good topic for a first date with a Japanese woman?
You can talk about anything, but you should not just talk about past relationships and your ex-partner. It will either sound like complaining or be seen as evidence that the wounds of the past have not healed.
A number of OZMATCH male members have had their first dates ruined by talking about their past relationships and their ex-partners.
So, please do not talk about your past relationship on a first date with any woman.
You can talk about your hobbies, but that’s on your profile, isn’t it?
We organsie three to four first dates ( we call it an OMIAI) every week for OZMATCH executive members and I try to be present on first dates as much as possible.
This is partly to bear witness to the day they met, but also because it serves to relax a nervous couple.
I then ask them both questions that are not mentioned in their profiles.
The question I often pose is: “What is your most memorable childhood memory?”
Everyone has a childhood, and asking people to share their childhood memories often reveals a completely different side to the impression you get from their appearance and profile.
Most of the time, their stories are cute and make you smile, and the nerves of the first date melt away.
It is important to tell them how great you are now on your first dade, but if you tell them about the archetype you were made from, they will understand you even better.
If you ask them the same questions, you’ll understand them very well. Win-win.
Sharing your childhood memories could be extra step to leave a good impression on a first date with a Japanese woman.
Are you looking for a Japanese women ?
We are a licensed introduction agency based in Australia, supporting single men and single Japanese women who are looking for a long-lasting romantic relationship.
OZMATCH is suitable for those single men
- Men who find Japanese women attractive but are not sure how to meet them.
- Men who feel that they are not compatible with Western women.
- Men who have tried online dating to meet Japanese women but felt that it was a waste of time.
- Men who want to have a permanent relationship with a Japanese woman who is willing to move to their country.
- Men who may be shy or inexperienced when it comes to women.
- Men who want a personalised Japanese matchmaking service with a real person assisting them.
- Men who are interested in Japanese culture and want to enhance their experience through a Japanese partner.
If you are one of them, OZMATCH could be the platform to find the ideal Japanese partner you have been seeking for.
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