Is one month enough to give up on finding an ideal Japanese woman?
I got a message from one of our former male members. He met his perfect Japanese woman at OZMATCH.
He said in his message
“To be honest I thought I’d last about a month before I gave up.
I thought maybe only a month when I joined OZMATCH as I wasn’t sure what type of Japanese woman I would meet and the distance between us.
So lucky things turned out the way they did!
She is a beautiful girl and we are so much alike.”
His first OMIAI (a first date) went very well but soon he found that he and she were different. They ended their relationship ( we call it “ a trial relationship”) in one month.
In his second month of OZMATCH, we introduced another Japanese woman who is beautiful, honest, sincere and loves adventure, traveling, and new experiences. Just like him. They had an OMIAI.
Soon both of them felt that he/she could be the one. And they were right.
Is a year too soon to give up on finding a perfect Japanese women?
There was a male member who had been a member of OZMATCH for a year and a half and hadn’t met his ideal Japanese woman. He almost gave up on finding his perfect Japanese woman.
But he didn’t give up and continued his journey with OZMATCH.
No, in truth, he almost gave up.
He was a nice man, but nice does not mean you can meet women.
We introduced him to a new Japanese female member. They hit it off on an OMIAI ( a first date) and got married four months after the first meeting. They are a very well-matched couple, too.
Both men would not be happy today if they had given up.
Three types of Single men
I categorise singles into three types.
- Singles who are not clear what they want and cannot make any decisions.
- Singles who are clear about what they want and therefore do not listen to others’ opinions
- Singles who know what they want but are open to other people’s opinions
Singles who are not clear what they want and cannot make any decisions
They are singles who used to know what they wanted, but then lost confidence in their search for a partner and lost sight of what kind of woman they were looking for.
Or they have become hesitant to tell us about what kind of woman they are looking for because they’ve been refused before and don’t want to be refused again.
Men of this type are more likely to meet the right woman if they meet a good matchmaking adviser.
Singles who are clear about what they want and therefore do not listen to others’ opinions
They are singles who can think and act for themselves and have achieved their goals. They may be entrepreneurial types.
That’s a very great quality, but they can be very stubborn.
These types of people are often unable to ever find a partner.
This is because even if they have lots of chances to meet nice women, if the women don’t meet their criteria, the guy doesn’t seize the opportunity and loses out.
It’s a pity, because in life, joy and happiness can be hidden in what at first, doesn’t seem like a great opportuni.
Singles who know what they want but are open to other people’s opinions
They can think and act for themselves and have their own opinions, but they are also flexible towards the opinions of others. They can also be described as humble.
This type of person often finds a partner quickly when they join a matchmaking agency.
This is because they will try to meet the woman chosen by the matchmaking adviser, even if that woman doesn’t match their ideals.
Then they find her attractive in a way that was not apparent from her profile alone, and fall in love with her.
Common mistakes single men make
Both the man who met his ideal Japanese woman in his second month and the man who met his ideal Japanese woman a year and a half later almost made the same mistake as ‘Singles who are clear about what they want and therefore do not listen to others’ opinions’.
The man who met his ideal Japanese woman in his second month said in his message.
“I should have gone with Misao’s first pick in the first month”
Fortunately, he agreed to meet the woman I had recommended first in his second month.
The man who met his ideal Japanese woman a year and a half after joining OZMATCH, was stubborn and he refused any girls I recommended.
Just when I had given up on the idea of introducing anyone to this man, a new Japanese female member joined OZMATCH.
I thought they might be a perfect fit! I immediately introduced her to him. However, as usual, he refused to meet her.
Usually, once members refuse, I never introduce the same person to them again. But I couldn’t help feeling that they would be a good fit, so I suggested to him to meet her. I did it three times in a month.
Finally he agreed to go on an OMIAI with her. And after the OMIAI, he was the one who said, “I want to see her again!”.
He became so eager to marry her, and she was so overcome with his passion, that they married within four months of the OMIAI.
If he had not listened to his matchmaking adviser, he would still be single.
Singles who are not clear what they want and cannot make any decisions.
Singles who are clear about what they want and therefore do not listen to others’ opinions
Singles who know what they want but are open to other people’s opinions
Which type are you??
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