What advice do young men seriously looking for a Japanese partner want?
About ten months ago, a young man contacted OZMATCH. This is his message.
Dear Misao-san.
I am very passionate about Japanese culture and I have learnt to speak and understand Japanese by watching anime when I travelled to Japan with my school friends.
I am 28 years old now and I am thinking about getting married, but I always feel like it would be nice if I married a Japanese woman.
I guess it’s an instinct. I think it’s something that shouldn’t be rushed, so I wanted to message you to see if you could give me some advice.
Best regards.
The first thing that came to my mind when I received this message was: Is he a cartoon geek? Then, Is he serious about marriage at the young age of 28?
I never really thought about marriage when I was in my twenties, so every time I get an inquiry from a young person in their twenties, I question whether they are serious.
A few weeks later, I spoke to the young man on Zoom.
He told me that he respected his father and had worked hard to follow the same career path. I was very touched by it and I also understood how serious he was looking for his future Japanese partner.
If you want to meet Japanese women, don’t look in the wrong place
He asked me for some advice in his first message. Perhaps what he wanted to know most was, how could he meet a Japanese woman who is also looking for a partner?
There are many sites for “How to meet Japanese women.”
Well, you can meet young Japanese women by attending Meetups in your city. It’s easy.
But it’s not so easy to find Japanese women in Australia who are serious about finding a partner.
These women may be exhausted from their studies and part-time jobs with a second language.
Have you ever thought about it?
In fact, 65% of OzMatch’s female members live in Japan. And it is mostly women living in Japan who are seriously looking for a partner.
Many of the women on OZMATCH say they have studied in Australia in their 20s and 30s. Did you not have a relationship then? I asked. They say they were so occupied with their studies and part-time jobs that they didn’t have time to think about relationships or marriage.
So, you can meet Japanese women in your country but it may not be so easy to find Japanese women in your country who are serious about finding a partner.
I think that is why the young man contacted OZMATCH.
Human intuition that dating sites and matching apps do not have
The young man decided to join OZMATCH as an executive member. He did this because he thought he would not meet the kind of women he was looking for on dating sites or matching apps.
Would he have met his ideal Japanese woman immediately?
Unfortunately, he couldn’t find a Japanese woman in the first month and I advised him to suspend his membership. OZMATCH’s membership system does not charge any fees while you are suspending your membership.
When five months had passed since his recess, a young woman registered as a member with OZMATCH. The moment I saw her profile, ‘she finally showed up!’ I thought.
I don’t know anything about her. I have never met her. But I thought that the young man and this woman were meant to meet.
That day, I sent an email to this young woman, whom I had never met, saying, “There is a man I would like to introduce to you”.
I also sent an email to the man who is on recess. ‘Are you still single? There is a young Japanese lady I would like to introduce you to.’
Sometimes you have to wait to meet your ideal Japanese woman
Last weekend, OZMATCH organised eight OMIAI ( first dates/blind dates). Of the eight OMIAI, three took place in local Australian cafés and five in Zoom.
And one of these was between that young man and young woman.
I am present when an OMIAI takes place in Zoom. It’s only for the first five minutes, but it’s my role to ease the tension between the two of them.
I was also present at the OMIAI between these two young people, and when I saw them on the computer screen, I thought, ‘Ah, they have finally met’.
The OMIAI went very well.
Next day, I got a message from the young woman.
Misao-san, you were right.
He is a sincere person who made a lot of effort.
He has a lot of life experience despite his young age and I genuinely respected him.
In my notes on my mobile phone, I wrote about my ideal partner a long time ago, and last night I remembered and looked back at them, and they all applied to him.
I was indeed too surprised and shocked by the mystery!
So what did he think of her?
He keeps saying ‘She is beautiful’. And the next day he sent her a bouquet of bright red roses. How romantic it is.
She received the flowers and then sent me a message. “Misao-san! Santa delivered the presents early this year!”
It had been 10 months since he first heard about OZMATCH and contacted us.
They had a conversation the other day about what kind of partnership would be ideal for them, and they found that they both had exactly the same idea.
My job is done. 🙂
How can I meet a young Japanese woman who is seriously looking for a partner?
I believe there are many young Japanese women in your locality. But you don’t know if they are looking for a partner. Even if you can get a date with a young Japanese woman, after a few months she may tell you that she has decided to go back to Japan.
This is because they have come to your country to study and experience a different culture. They are not here to find a marriage partner. Not all of them, though.
In contrast, the Japanese women who join OZMATCH are serious about finding a partner. Our membership fees are not cheap, so paying them means they are very serious.
How can I meet a young Japanese woman who is seriously looking for a partner?
There are many Japanese women who are seriously looking for a partner at OZMATCH.
OZMATCH is the key if you are looking for your ideal Japanese partner.
Here are some reviews of OZMATCH male members who have met and decided to marry the Japanese woman of their dreams on OZMATCH.
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