How to keep a Japanese lady interested
OzMatch, an Australian and Japanese Matchmaking Agency, has been received lots of questions from our members and our potential members. The other day, we were asked “How to keep a Japanese lady interested” by one of our executive members. I will call him Mr.G.
Mr.G met a beautiful Japanese lady at our Speed Dating Event in September. How beautiful is she? She was the winner of a beauty contest in 2019.

So you know I am not just saying “a beautiful lady”. I will call her Miss Beauty.
After the Speed Dating, Mr. G and Miss Beauty had anOMIAI (a first date) and since then they are getting along together very well.
Then Mr.G asked me “How do I keep a Japanese lady interested” the other day. He might worry a little bit because Miss Beauty is in demand.
Of course I can give him several tips of “HOW TO” but it seems like he doesn’t realise that he is already doing right things.
Women love RESPECT
You might worry about what you should talk with your Japanese lady to keep her interested.
But you have to understand that how you talk is more important than what you talk. Please read one of our Japanese female members’ messages below.
What she said in her mail to me is:
“Hi Misao san, While I was talking with him, I found out for the first time that he always takes a shower before talking to me. He said that Japanese people are very clean. I’m really happy about this concern, even though it’s not a real date, but it’s a ZOOM date. I think I am here to learn about love and trust and I might be able to fulfil that with him. “
Can you guess who she is?
Yes. She was the winner of a beauty Contest in 2019. That message came from Miss Beauty herself, who is dating Mr. G.
Mr. G wants to know how to keep a Japanese lady interested but he has already succeeded in keeping his Japanese lady interested by showing his respect for her.
Women love to get involved in your life
What other Japanese ladies confided in me:
“ I am very happy because he introduced me to his friends. I felt like he invited me into his life.”
“One day he called me during the daytime. He sounded very upset and he said he had a very bad day. That was the best call I ever had from him because I am the one whom he wanted to talk to when he had a hard time.”
Those two ladies’ messages show what makes your lady happy and keeps her interested.
Join our Speed Dating Event and find YOUR Japanese lady
Mr.G and Miss Beauty met at our Speed Dating Event in September. It has not been a long time yet but they have been talking about so many future plans, including a Japan trip, an Australian trip, dancing lessons, etc. Both seem very happy.
If you want to have an intimate, long term relationship with our Japanese ladies, our Speed Dating Event might be your first step.
Join OzMatch Virtual Speed Dating on November 28th and 29th.
