Japanese, single, and very few friends to hang out with
I’m Japanese and I was single till 39 years old. My single life in Japan wasn’t as excited as other singles and I didn’t like weekends.
Most of my Japanese girlfriends were married and had families. They sometimes invited me to come, but I always made excuses. How could I interrupt their weekend family events?
One day I really wanted to spend some time with friends and I organised a lunch party.
I invited four girlfriends and their partners and clearly said No Children so we could talk. The couples all lived with their parents and I thought they could leave their children with them. I prepared lunch and drinks for 9 adults.
The result wasn’t what I expected. All four couples brought their children. There were nine children and the lunch party turned into a children’s party. There was no mature conversation at all and I spent all afternoon listening to their parenting matters. That was the day I gave up on hanging out with my married girlfriends.
Some of my Japanese girlfriends were still single, like me, but they had negative thoughts about men. They seemed angry about men or disappointed in men. So they chose their job to fill their lives.
I respected what they were doing but I didn’t want to be influenced by them. Because I didn’t want to give up on meeting someone.
Do you get weekend loneliness
When I was single,I didn’t like rainy days, evening twilight or autumn either. They made me melancholy.
When I was single, I didn’t like Christmas, New Years’ Eve, Valentine’s Day or my birthday. Because I didn’t have anyone to celebrate with.
When I was single, there were many things I didn’t like. How about you?
Weekends with your Japanese wife – that’s your future
But my life and weekends have changed since I met my Australian husband.
I like rainy days, evening twilight and autumn. Because it’s a perfect day, time or season to cuddle. I like Christmas, New Years’ Eve, Valentines’ Day and my birthday.Because I have someone who cares for me and makes me feel loved.
My husband took me to the sky yesterday. It was his first flight to bring a passenger and I was the first brave passenger 🙂
Did I enjoy it? Yes and No.
I was happy to be with my lovely husband and I was not happy to be with a not-expert-yet pilot.I was so scared and my adrenalin lasted till the evening. But my weekend was fantastic, memorable and unforgettable.
I know both single life weekends and marriage life weekends. In my case, my weekends with my husband is million times better than my past weekends.
What weekend will you choose alone or with someone?
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