Hi Misao san,
I just wanted to give you some feedback regarding my experience so that it may help someone else in the same position as me.
At first, when I joined OzMatch I wasn’t really for meeting someone in Japan but rather someone who was already in Aus. I thought that this was the best way for me to meet a Japanese lady as it would probably be easier and quicker during this pandemic. This was one of my major concerns for OzMatch as I didn’t know when I was going to be able to meet someone if a person with so many unknowns about flying out of Aus.
I believe it was after the second consultation with Misao san that she asked me to basically open my thoughts to someone based in Japan. I spoke about my concerns but she quickly put me at ease with her explanations. She said this would be a really good time to get to know someone and you can work on your conversation skills together while being online.
Also, there was no pressure with meeting someone and just seeing if it worked.
I was able to meet a beautiful lady and I am glad to say we are going well. I don’t think I would be able to have this type of conversation actually if I met her in person.
I mean you talk about a lot of things but I have found that talking with her now our conversations go really deep and it is something you probably wouldn’t have seen come around for a long time if we met in person.
Is it going to be an easy path for everyone? No definitely not, however, if you don’t at least consider it as an option you might be missing out on something truly special.
Thank you to Misao san for helping me to open my eyes to the idea.